The tan has faded into a freckly stain on my skin; the wristbands I treasured have been cut from my wrist; and the welcome home balloons have started to sag. I’ve been back for a month now and it barely seems real that I spent six months in South America. Work has recommenced with a vigour and with an all-consuming, never-ending drain on all my energies, that I’m only just beginning to feel like I’m beginning to keep up. It’s like a 1000v electric shock has just been administered to my body, which has erased all traces of ever having been away. And instead replaced it with Work Lucy. I’m back at the desk doing the same tasks and thinking the same things I was before. Except I don’t have an exciting adventure to plan and focus on.
Such is the devouring nature of work, I can scarcely believe that I was away at all. It feels like I’ve had my head in the clouds in a particularly vivid and lengthy daydream, only to find someone calling my name, bringing me back to reality: lucy….Lucy….LUCY!!
Oh, I was here at work the whole time – you’ll never guess what I just dreamt…I had this extraordinary dream that I went and travelled all around South America. Silly me.
Was I ever really there? Did it really happen? It’s amazing how quickly you slot back into every day life, and your memories become no more than a fantastical dream, because there’s no-one here to help anchor them down. It could all just as well be in your head – a story of make-believe. After all, who would know??
So i’ back at work – at least this is a job that I actually like (didn’t stop me from almost bursting into overwhelmed and frustrated tears the second day back though), imagine what it’d be like going back to a job you hated…??
I’ve also managed to catch up with most of my friends to some extent. But what’s changed, how am I different and what did I learn…
The answers to those soul-searching questions are always a tad tricky. It’s kind of hard to know if you’ve changed because to yourself, you’re just you…
I’d say that I’m generally more chilled out about things; drive a bit slower and rush around slightly less, but perhaps that’s because I’ve purposely not been cramming every waking hour with some activity or another.
The Boy, on the other hand, thinks I’m more erratic and unpredictable. Prone to mood swings. But I think that’s just because he’s forgotten what it’s like to live with a girl…especially when they get hungry!
I’d like to say I’ve become more patient and forbearing – after spending six months at the whim of various bus companies’ schedules; putting up with Colombian taxi drivers, who don’t have a clue about where they’re going; and travelling long distances every two or three days. Also spending five months with someone without any arguments is quite an achievement I’m proud of…
I think my time away has taught me a new level of independence and self-sufficiency. Getting by on my wits and intuition. It’s a great feeling to know that you can go anywhere and make friends with new people and get along fine. In fact, that was one of my favourite things about being away. What you learn about people in such a short space of time. And I’m not talking about what job they did, where they lived, or which uni they attended. On a factual level you barely knew anything – but I wasn’t there to learn their CV by heart. It was amazing how well you could connect with a person within a matter of days. I feel like I don’t know as much about many of my home friends, who I’ve known for years. Amanda, Lars, José, Sarah, Loes, Casey, Ryan, Harry, Kate, Nicky, Jules and so many more (you know who you are) – you were all such legends and had me in stitches so much! It was a real privilege travelling with you and getting to know you!
That’s not to say I didn’t get bored of the age old opener…what’s your name…where are you from…where have you been…where are you going next…??? By halfway through the trip I generally tried to avoid these questions (and the people who asked them) – and would tell a pack of lies if asked. I resorted to a new opening question asking people what their favourite cheese was. The answer was much more indicative of a personality and I got so many different, interesting answers! Surprisingly, only one person ever asked me why I wanted to know what their favourite cheese was – everyone else answered unhesitatingly.
Travelling and spending time with so many different nationalities as well as meeting local people as we went round restores your faith in humanity. I can’t remember a time when anyone was horrible to us – in fact everyone was so exceptionally friendly and helpful. In fact, the only unpleasant person I can think of was our guide up Huayna Potosi – the 6,000m mountain I climbed in Bolivia. He dragged me and my trek-buddy, Jamie, up that mountain at an exponential rate, got me smacked in the face with an ice-pick and almost had me hurtling down a wall of rocks on my backside because he was racing off into the distance whilst still tied to me. Big thanks to Jamie for sticking up for me when I was too exhausted to do it for myself!
More than anything I learned that people on the other side of the world aren’t so different to us as I expected. Some of them may wear different clothes but they’re just trying to make their way in the world like anyone else. They laugh, they dance, they play football, they like to have a few drinks on a Friday and they know how to party!
I’m glad to be back home seeing the Boy, friends and family. Having a more varied and healthy diet is also a definite plus and I really missed exercise the last few months I was away. But above all, I’m glad to be reunited with my bed!!! If it wasn’t for that keeping me here – and the small matter of money then I would be off again in a flash having the time of my life. Where next, everyone keeps asking me. No plans yet, but I’m sure it won’t be too long before I start hatching my next plan…
Thanks for taking the time to check out the blog. I hope i managed to convey some sense of the wonderful places I went to whilst I was away. I had such a brilliant time, i don’t think i can ever top it.
PS. for those who were wondering which my favourite country was, my official answer is Bolivia and Colombia – for their outstanding natural beauty and because of the wonderful people who live there (although i really did love every country and picking out favourites feels like picking your favourite child!)
South America – I love you – thank you for showing me such a fantastic time.
L xxx